Mary Barnette

Mary Allen Barnette

November 3, 1932 - October 4, 2020
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Mary Allen Barnette, 87, formerly of Abbeville, wife of the late Ned Elder Barnette passed away Sunday, October 4, 2020 at The Renaissance in Due West. She was born in Barrow County, GA to the late Charles Frederick Allen and Edna Johnson Allen.

A graduate of Winder Barrow High School, Mary participated in basketball during her years there; later, she was involved with local recreational teams. She retired from the Abbeville County School System. Mary enjoyed golf and often played with family and friends. She was a member of Main Street United Methodist Church in Abbeville. Mary’s love for family was evident; she cherished the time spent with her grandchildren and great-grandchildren

In addition to her husband and parents, she was preceded in death by three brothers, Herman Allen, Thoyce Allen and Ted Allen.

Mary is survived by her two sons, Steve (Karen) Barnette of Holly Springs, NC and Rick (Judy) Barnette of Franklin, TN; five grandchildren, Mandy (David) Hartley, Lindsey (Marc) Johnson, Jessica (Nick) Barit, McKenzie (Grant) Schumpert, and Haley Barnette; and six great-grandchildren.

Funeral services will be 11:00AM, Wednesday, October 7, 2020 in the Harris Funeral Home chapel with Rev. Randy Taylor and Rev. Brian Arant officiating. Entombment will follow in Oakbrook Memorial Park Mausoleum.  The family will receive friends immediately following the service.  Although you may not be able to join us because of current health concerns, we covet your prayers during this difficult time.  The funeral service will be live-streamed and may be viewed by visiting .

In lieu of flowers, the family respectfully requests memorials, in memory of Mary, are sent to Main Street United Methodist Church, PO Box 656, Abbeville, SC 29620 or to the American Cancer Society, c/o Conway Shirley, 144 Winona Church Road, Donalds, SC 29638.

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Harris Funeral Home and Cremation Services of Abbeville is assisting the Barnette family.

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    October 7, 2020 |
    October 7, 2020
    Harris Funeral Home, Abbeville Chapel
  • Interment

    Oakbrook Memorial Park


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Jean Agan

Posted at 12:00am
Loved working with her at the Nursing Home and she taught me a lot  Warm,quick witted with a super sence of humor. RIP

Susie K New

Posted at 12:00am
It was heartbreaking news to learn of the passing of Mary.  We know she is safe in the arms of Jesus and with her precious Ned.  My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Charles Walden

Posted at 12:00am
Steve & Rick, Your Mama was such a sweet and loving person. We will be unable to attend but know we will be praying for each of you as you cope with this great loss. - Charles


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Jill McMillan

Posted at 12:00am
I truly loved Mary and Ned!!! They meant a lot to me as well as my parents... Harry and JoAnn Horton! They will surely be missed by all. Great loving and caring folks. Thinking of the entire family ??

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